The Art of Letting Go

Letting go is a very hard part.

Three years ago, I never thought the sun would still shine on me, that I would be happy and can smile again. Thinking that I can’t be with someone I loved again and we can’t ever do the things that we both meaningfully did before really hurts me. Forgetting all those happy memories that we’ve shared is the hardest part. But life must go on. I had realized that I should pick up my heart’s thousand broken pieces and carry myself again.

How to Start Moving On

 

·             Accepting the Situation

The very first thing that you should do is to accept the fact that it is already over. Those chapters of your life are close and you can never bring them back again.

·            Put Away the Memories

It is important that you keep away those pictures of you together. Every little thing which reminds you of the past should keep out of your sight because every time you will see it, all the memories will rush into your mind all over again.

·        Learn from it

Instead of blaming yourself or your partner, get a lesson from the relationship. Everything happened in your life has its lessons even it is good or a bad. Take note of the great things for you to use it and the bad things to stay away from them again.

There is more in life to enjoy with.

·       Time Heals Everything

   

Give yourself what it deserves.  Your whole time, why don’t go shopping. Focus on yourself and think over and over again if you are ready for a new relationship.

·       Don’t Compare

To be totally happy with a new relationship, don’t compare your ex with your present. Don’t look for the traits what your ex has. Accept your present as what he really is.

Letting go is not easy. Stay being positive and think that you can regain all your happiness again. Spend your time with your family and friends instead of being alone. Take time to forget about the past. Do not regret of spending those time with that person, thank him or her for the experience and lessons you get from it. Maybe he/she is not the right person for you.  Life is too short, spend it wisely. Live life to the fullest, laugh at the problems you encounter just think that it is only a challenge for you to pass. Give and fill your heart with full of love.

How to Get Rid of Hatred

It’s really not easy feeling hurt. To feel the pain caused by someone you loved the most. I’ve been there for years now. But I need to face and deal the pain to see the other side of life. There are lots of important things to do in this world instead of feeling the pain.

Feeling the Pain

 

Knowing that your family is putting you down, never see and appreciate your effort for them, who are not there to support you on your life’s plans and ambitions gives you the real meaning of pain. The one you expected to be there with you whatever happens leaves you behind when you needed them the most. Hearing all those insult words. Never treating you like as a sibling. Never listen and needed your help and opinion. Discourage your own life’s plan. Ignoring you all throughout the day. All this actions give wounds to your heart.

Getting Rid of the Pain

 

To get rid of the pains just don’t think of what they did, of what negative words they’ve told you. Take some time alone, take deep breath, relax and think of yourself. Ease the pain by reminiscing the good memories you’ve shared. It is not the pain they’ve caused you that matter. Give more value to those happy times with them and to the moment they made you smile. Never hate instead show them that you still love them even they hurt you so badly. There is no permanent in this world, so before it is too late and while you can, tell them, show to them and let them feel that in spite of all the pain they caused you, they are still the most important people in your life and it is not good that you always bear the hate in your heart every day for your own family. Think that you are not what you are and where you are now without them. Life is not unfair, it just that there are reasons why you should feel and experience all the pain.

If they don’t believe in you, do all your plans not for them but for yourself. Prove to them that all the pain inspired you to pursue all your dreams. Trust yourself. Time will come they will need you, appreciates your effort and plans for them. Just take time to heal the wounds. Instead of feeling hurt, get a lesson from every problem and take it for you to use as weapon in facing life ahead. Life is full of surprises; you will just wake up one day and realize that all the things are almost perfect. Just live life with full of love, ignore the pain and smile.

A Life's True Treasure

We all know that we only have one life. One chance to see how wonderful the world is. But once is enough if you live it right. There is so much in life to enjoy like waking up in the morning, knowing you have wonderful parents who are always there to support you, having sister or brothers.

See the beauty of the world.

Problems, hatred, sorrow and all the pain you felt are not enough reason to give up life, to ruin the one great gift from God. Having much trouble in life is just a challenge to us. We are not given problems that we cannot pass. There are shoulders we can lean if we need one, your mother or father, your best friend. Always know that you are loved. Always think positive in life.

I know pain is always right there, but think in other way. Don’t always recall the reason of your sadness; instead think of a way how to enjoy life. Positive things and happy days always outnumbered the bad days.

Just be yourself, express what you feel. Don’t mind what other people say about you because they don’t know what you’ve been through. Don’t think that you have all the problem of the world. Feel free to laugh and to love. Enjoy each thing what life has given you. Just smile and confidently say “I Love my Life!” Trust yourself that you can.

Yes, it’s really not easy facing problems. There is no life without problems. There is no perfect in this world. We can’t be able to get all the things we wanted. Even though we already obtain what we wish for, we felt there is still lacking. As a human we always wanted for more, there is no contentment. But we should realize that every little thing has it worth and we should value, appreciate and enjoy it. Time is precious, so don’t waste any single minute by thinking of your problems. Why not just share it with important people. And do all the things that make you happy. Just smile, set free all your worries and believe in yourself.

Check out the video below on the The Secret of a Happy Life: