How to Achieve Your Goal

Do you ever wonder if you can achieve what you want to have in life? Yes, it not easy especially if you will face so many challenges along the way. You feel like giving up. But as what other people say, behind every successful man is an unsuccessful years.

Nothing is impossible for those who believe.

Here are some ways that will help you achieve your goals in life:

1. Determine your major purpose. This is the very first thing you should think. Ask yourself, “What do I really want in my life?” It’s because you don’t know if you already achieve one thing if you don’t know what your goal is.

2. Is you goal measurable. Not every goal has it priced. After knowing what your goal is, determine how much its value. It’s putting price on your dreams.  So that you can find ways on how to get that specific value in such time. For example, you want a new car? How much is the price of a brand new car.

3. Is your goal attainable. In determining a goal, you should consider your goal if you can achieve it. Determine if there are ways you can get what you want.

4. Is your goal realistic. It is important that your goals are realistic. That you can able achieve it and not just a dream.

5. Determine your goal’s time-bound. In setting a goal, you should set specific time or date if when you want to receive or achieve your goal. Example: You want to become a lawyer. When do you exactly want to be a lawyer? Next year or 2 years from now?

6. Use the law of attraction. We all know that the law of attraction really works. What we always think, see and feel will come to us. Why not also use it in your everyday lives. Always think and feel that you already receive what you want in life.

7. Take an action. The most important thing in achieving your goal is making it happen. Find ways on how to achieve your goal. Whether you will go to look for a job, run your own business or go for real estate marketing.  Either way, what is important is making an action to all your plans. Grab every opportunity that comes along your way as long as it is not illegal.

They key tips to achieve your goal is to start making it happen. Why start tomorrow if you can do it today? Take one step at a time, don't be afraid.

Tips to a Successful Relationship

What it takes to have a long-lasting relationship? The success of it begins within you. It depends on how you handle every challenge that comes your way.

Here are some tips to make your relationship work and bond stronger:

1. Keep communication open. Communicating is really important in a relationship. It is a way to know your partner and your partner knows about you.  A relationship without any communications are won’t really workout.  Talk about what you want and listen to each other is important.

2. Anticipations. Give some time to discuss with your partner about what you expect in your relationship, if do you have want or rules and know what you are committing to.

3. Loyalty. Being loyal is really easy if you want to spend the rest of your life with your partner now. You will not cheat behind his/her back. Even he/she is far away from you, just remain loyal and faithful for he/she will do the same for you.

4. Spend some time together.  In a relationship, you should give your partner a priority time. It is the time to know your partner’s characteristics and to let them feel that they are important to you.

5. Be supportive. Instead of judging your partner’s decision, if it is good for him/her why not just support of what he/she wants. From the time you are two are together, you are already a one team. 

6. Make plan together. Making plans for the future is a great sign that you are serious in that relationship, that you are in a long-term relationship.

7. Respect each other.  Respect your partner and act right to earn his/her respect. Accept your partner for what he/she really is. Don’t try to change his/her personality as what you want.

8. Exert your effort. Don’t take your relationship for granted. Perfect relationship doesn’t just happen. It requires your time and effort.

9. Be thankful. Feel the great feeling for having a wonderful person in your life and be happy that they have chosen you too.  It is just one time to meet the perfect person for you.  

10. Trust your partner. Even your partner is miles away from you, just believe and have faith in him/her that. Doubts can ruin a perfect relationship. If you have heard some negative things about your partner, ask him/her first, clarify the truth. Do not assume things that he/she didn’t do.

11. Let your partner become your best friend. It is great that your partner is your best friend; you can share all your secrets without worrying that other will know about it. You can assure that it will remain keep.

12. The love and care. Without love you two will not understand each other. The love is the perfect ingredient for a long-lasting romantic relationship.  If you love, you care about your partner. You would be concern about his/her feeling, health and all the things about him/her.

Finding the True Happiness

What happiness really means? What it takes to be happy? These are just the questions stock in my mind these last few days. Why others are so happy while I am not. As human being, we want to be happy always. But life is full of ups and downs, there is no perfect in this world. There is some time that we can feel pain. But there are things that we can do to prevent being sad, to enjoy life and to be truly happy.

True happiness comes from within.

How to Achieve Happiness in Life

 

1. Determine what makes you happy. As an individual, we have different desires in our life. We have different things that we hope for. Don't look and compare the things your peers have that you don't have. Know your own life's wants.

 2. Know your goals. Attaining your life's goals is really a big achievement for you. Giving time for the things you value much in your life can make you happy.

3. Stay positive. If something goes wrong that out of your plan, don't get upset or mad, instead try to figure out what is the reason it fails. Try and try again until you'll get what you want. You can have all your time. Just don't give up. Maybe there are just reasons why you didn't get it in time you want it to achieve.

 4. Be with happy people. Surrounding yourself with happy people will also make you feel great and happy. What is happening in your surrounding will reflect on what you feel. Be with people who will encourage you.

 5. Be yourself. The first people who will appreciate you so much is none other than yourself. See the true beauty within yourself. It's like you can't find love if you don't love yourself first.

 6. Forget what makes you feel mad. Failures and pains in the past is not important anymore. Past is past and you can never change them. Face the fact that it’s already over. Instead of always blaming yourself why don't just learn from it.

7. Spend some time alone. Giving yourself a time alone to think and appreciate what you have can make you realize and see that you have a lot of things to be thankful. Be grateful every little thing that you have now. Being grateful can make you truly happy that come from your heart.

8. Lower your expectations. Expecting too much and never achieve can cause you so much pain. It is not bad to dream big, to hope and wish for things. It’s too hard to find happiness if you dream to high. You can't appreciate the little things that will come your way.

9. Stay healthy. Being physical and mentally fit can let you find the true happiness. Simply you can do anything you want to do in your life. You can go for a walk, run, swimming and laugh with the people you love without worrying anything. You can enjoy yourself to the fullest.

The most important thing is don’t let the day end with anger. Make peace in everything, it will make you have a good night sleep and it will lighten up your next day.

How to Make a Great Day

Living a great life is a choice, it begins within you. The way you react on a situation will reflect to your mood. Life is too short start with broken pieces of yesterday. Forget the past that made you mad and enjoy the things that you have today.

Live life to Fullest

To be happy for the entire day, the first thing you should do is to be thankful that you wake up each morning. Appreciate every little thing. Count the good things and all the blessings, not the bad ones. Think that every problem that comes your way will only pass through to you to make you learn some lesson. 

Smile

Every time you meet someone whether it is a friend or total strangers give them your friendly smile. Receiving a smile from other person may lighten up your heart’s burden.

Be Positive

Whatever situation that will come along your way, stay strong and think that you can surpass them all. Life is full of up and downs. Not all the time you will encounter problems. Think that every problem has its solutions.

Give Yourself a Value Time

Spending some time alone for yourself will make you relax and ease all the burdens you felt. Do some exercise to make you feel refresh.

Do Something Good

Doing something good to others may also make you feel good. Saying “thank you” will also one of them. Helping others is really a great life accomplishment.

Communicate with People

Give value time to each other.

In so many ways, our relationship with other people makes us happy. The best way to enjoy your day at your work is to build a strong relationship with your co-worker. Even at home, a perfect family spend time all together. Expressing all their thoughts and feelings make a family relation harmonious.

Be Carefree

Getting all your desires, wants and obsessions can really make your day great to the fullest. It is not being selfish to get what you want. It’s just giving yourself a break from a very hectic life.

Don’t Live with the Past

Live what life had offered you today.

The very important thing to be happy is to forget your past especially if it makes you mad. Don’t think of your mistakes, instead think the lesson that you get from it. You can’t ever change the past and tomorrow is yet to happen, so embrace and enjoy the little things that life offer you today.

Learn New Things

It will be really a great day knowing that you learn something new before the day ends. It is a big advantage to you in such time. And every time you wake in the morning say to yourself that “Today is a new day”. A chance to correct your mistakes in the past and to prove that you can do what life had offered you. Today is the day!

The Art of Letting Go

Letting go is a very hard part.

Three years ago, I never thought the sun would still shine on me, that I would be happy and can smile again. Thinking that I can’t be with someone I loved again and we can’t ever do the things that we both meaningfully did before really hurts me. Forgetting all those happy memories that we’ve shared is the hardest part. But life must go on. I had realized that I should pick up my heart’s thousand broken pieces and carry myself again.

How to Start Moving On

 

·             Accepting the Situation

The very first thing that you should do is to accept the fact that it is already over. Those chapters of your life are close and you can never bring them back again.

·            Put Away the Memories

It is important that you keep away those pictures of you together. Every little thing which reminds you of the past should keep out of your sight because every time you will see it, all the memories will rush into your mind all over again.

·        Learn from it

Instead of blaming yourself or your partner, get a lesson from the relationship. Everything happened in your life has its lessons even it is good or a bad. Take note of the great things for you to use it and the bad things to stay away from them again.

There is more in life to enjoy with.

·       Time Heals Everything

   

Give yourself what it deserves.  Your whole time, why don’t go shopping. Focus on yourself and think over and over again if you are ready for a new relationship.

·       Don’t Compare

To be totally happy with a new relationship, don’t compare your ex with your present. Don’t look for the traits what your ex has. Accept your present as what he really is.

Letting go is not easy. Stay being positive and think that you can regain all your happiness again. Spend your time with your family and friends instead of being alone. Take time to forget about the past. Do not regret of spending those time with that person, thank him or her for the experience and lessons you get from it. Maybe he/she is not the right person for you.  Life is too short, spend it wisely. Live life to the fullest, laugh at the problems you encounter just think that it is only a challenge for you to pass. Give and fill your heart with full of love.

How to Get Rid of Hatred

It’s really not easy feeling hurt. To feel the pain caused by someone you loved the most. I’ve been there for years now. But I need to face and deal the pain to see the other side of life. There are lots of important things to do in this world instead of feeling the pain.

Feeling the Pain

 

Knowing that your family is putting you down, never see and appreciate your effort for them, who are not there to support you on your life’s plans and ambitions gives you the real meaning of pain. The one you expected to be there with you whatever happens leaves you behind when you needed them the most. Hearing all those insult words. Never treating you like as a sibling. Never listen and needed your help and opinion. Discourage your own life’s plan. Ignoring you all throughout the day. All this actions give wounds to your heart.

Getting Rid of the Pain

 

To get rid of the pains just don’t think of what they did, of what negative words they’ve told you. Take some time alone, take deep breath, relax and think of yourself. Ease the pain by reminiscing the good memories you’ve shared. It is not the pain they’ve caused you that matter. Give more value to those happy times with them and to the moment they made you smile. Never hate instead show them that you still love them even they hurt you so badly. There is no permanent in this world, so before it is too late and while you can, tell them, show to them and let them feel that in spite of all the pain they caused you, they are still the most important people in your life and it is not good that you always bear the hate in your heart every day for your own family. Think that you are not what you are and where you are now without them. Life is not unfair, it just that there are reasons why you should feel and experience all the pain.

If they don’t believe in you, do all your plans not for them but for yourself. Prove to them that all the pain inspired you to pursue all your dreams. Trust yourself. Time will come they will need you, appreciates your effort and plans for them. Just take time to heal the wounds. Instead of feeling hurt, get a lesson from every problem and take it for you to use as weapon in facing life ahead. Life is full of surprises; you will just wake up one day and realize that all the things are almost perfect. Just live life with full of love, ignore the pain and smile.

A Life's True Treasure

We all know that we only have one life. One chance to see how wonderful the world is. But once is enough if you live it right. There is so much in life to enjoy like waking up in the morning, knowing you have wonderful parents who are always there to support you, having sister or brothers.

See the beauty of the world.

Problems, hatred, sorrow and all the pain you felt are not enough reason to give up life, to ruin the one great gift from God. Having much trouble in life is just a challenge to us. We are not given problems that we cannot pass. There are shoulders we can lean if we need one, your mother or father, your best friend. Always know that you are loved. Always think positive in life.

I know pain is always right there, but think in other way. Don’t always recall the reason of your sadness; instead think of a way how to enjoy life. Positive things and happy days always outnumbered the bad days.

Just be yourself, express what you feel. Don’t mind what other people say about you because they don’t know what you’ve been through. Don’t think that you have all the problem of the world. Feel free to laugh and to love. Enjoy each thing what life has given you. Just smile and confidently say “I Love my Life!” Trust yourself that you can.

Yes, it’s really not easy facing problems. There is no life without problems. There is no perfect in this world. We can’t be able to get all the things we wanted. Even though we already obtain what we wish for, we felt there is still lacking. As a human we always wanted for more, there is no contentment. But we should realize that every little thing has it worth and we should value, appreciate and enjoy it. Time is precious, so don’t waste any single minute by thinking of your problems. Why not just share it with important people. And do all the things that make you happy. Just smile, set free all your worries and believe in yourself.

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