The Art of Letting Go

Letting go is a very hard part.

Three years ago, I never thought the sun would still shine on me, that I would be happy and can smile again. Thinking that I can’t be with someone I loved again and we can’t ever do the things that we both meaningfully did before really hurts me. Forgetting all those happy memories that we’ve shared is the hardest part. But life must go on. I had realized that I should pick up my heart’s thousand broken pieces and carry myself again.

How to Start Moving On

 

·             Accepting the Situation

The very first thing that you should do is to accept the fact that it is already over. Those chapters of your life are close and you can never bring them back again.

·            Put Away the Memories

It is important that you keep away those pictures of you together. Every little thing which reminds you of the past should keep out of your sight because every time you will see it, all the memories will rush into your mind all over again.

·        Learn from it

Instead of blaming yourself or your partner, get a lesson from the relationship. Everything happened in your life has its lessons even it is good or a bad. Take note of the great things for you to use it and the bad things to stay away from them again.

There is more in life to enjoy with.

·       Time Heals Everything

   

Give yourself what it deserves.  Your whole time, why don’t go shopping. Focus on yourself and think over and over again if you are ready for a new relationship.

·       Don’t Compare

To be totally happy with a new relationship, don’t compare your ex with your present. Don’t look for the traits what your ex has. Accept your present as what he really is.

Letting go is not easy. Stay being positive and think that you can regain all your happiness again. Spend your time with your family and friends instead of being alone. Take time to forget about the past. Do not regret of spending those time with that person, thank him or her for the experience and lessons you get from it. Maybe he/she is not the right person for you.  Life is too short, spend it wisely. Live life to the fullest, laugh at the problems you encounter just think that it is only a challenge for you to pass. Give and fill your heart with full of love.