How to Get Rid of Hatred

It’s really not easy feeling hurt. To feel the pain caused by someone you loved the most. I’ve been there for years now. But I need to face and deal the pain to see the other side of life. There are lots of important things to do in this world instead of feeling the pain.

Feeling the Pain

 

Knowing that your family is putting you down, never see and appreciate your effort for them, who are not there to support you on your life’s plans and ambitions gives you the real meaning of pain. The one you expected to be there with you whatever happens leaves you behind when you needed them the most. Hearing all those insult words. Never treating you like as a sibling. Never listen and needed your help and opinion. Discourage your own life’s plan. Ignoring you all throughout the day. All this actions give wounds to your heart.

Getting Rid of the Pain

 

To get rid of the pains just don’t think of what they did, of what negative words they’ve told you. Take some time alone, take deep breath, relax and think of yourself. Ease the pain by reminiscing the good memories you’ve shared. It is not the pain they’ve caused you that matter. Give more value to those happy times with them and to the moment they made you smile. Never hate instead show them that you still love them even they hurt you so badly. There is no permanent in this world, so before it is too late and while you can, tell them, show to them and let them feel that in spite of all the pain they caused you, they are still the most important people in your life and it is not good that you always bear the hate in your heart every day for your own family. Think that you are not what you are and where you are now without them. Life is not unfair, it just that there are reasons why you should feel and experience all the pain.

If they don’t believe in you, do all your plans not for them but for yourself. Prove to them that all the pain inspired you to pursue all your dreams. Trust yourself. Time will come they will need you, appreciates your effort and plans for them. Just take time to heal the wounds. Instead of feeling hurt, get a lesson from every problem and take it for you to use as weapon in facing life ahead. Life is full of surprises; you will just wake up one day and realize that all the things are almost perfect. Just live life with full of love, ignore the pain and smile.